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My Dog Is Dead

cultprincess - 4-29-2003 at 08:46 PM

Sorry guys but i have to vent about this one. Alot of you know my divorce was final on April 1st. I gave my ex mine and my daughter's dog being i gave him the house, putting full trust and faith he would take care of my dog.
(By the way I had a pure bred white female german shepherd) My dog has ALWAYS been an inside dog, never socialized with other animals as a puppy, and could be high strung at times. Other than that she was a good loving dog, and enjoyed company when i had any over. Knowing my dog's temperament, i avoided any situation to put my dog (or anyone else in a bad situation)
Well he takes her (as agreed upon in our mediation papers) moves in with his girlfriend who has 2 dogs knowing full well the temperament of my dog and then all of a sudden, now she's an outside dog.
Being thrown into a new environment like that, my dog started attacking the girlfriend's dog, tried killing any small animal she saw. Is this normal for a dog to do?
Well he calls me last night asking what I was going to do about it, i've not seen my dog in 2 months. He has a house with alot of land, i told him he should build a little section on his property just for my dog and keep the dogs seperated, that wasn't good enough for him, he said he wasn't going to do that, the dogs HAVE to learn to get along. :puzzled:
So i suggested buying a muzzle for my dog. I told him ultimately whatever decision he makes, i hope it's the right one.
My daughter called him today to see how Nala was doing and he told her he had put her to sleep. Big fucking man, i suggested a no kill shelter to keep her when he called me last night, not less than 24 hours, he put her to fucking sleep, he killed his daughter's dog. I asked him why, he told me he did what he had to do. There were solutions to this problem, he didn't care, there was no sound of remorse in his voice as I spoke to him. i know i didn't break my hand but it sure feels like it as i was hitting the wall raving like a lunatic.
http://www.vonuberhund.com/aboutus.htm
this is a link to where i got my dog from, there's pictures of Nala's parents. If you go to picture gallery, Trudy was my dog's mom and Tristan was the dad.

My daughter is devastated, she wrote a poem called "Nala's Poem" i wanted to share.

You and I shared a life together. We were best friends and did some fighting. None of the angriness in the world could make me mad at you forever. You brought me all the joy my heart ever needs. The fact that your gone despises me so much. I regret all the times I tortured you a bunch, but I know you loved me just the same. I loved you more than you can imagine and oh, I still do. I'm torn up by the fact you're not here, it's put me to hell and back, but I know you're in such a better place and that makes me happy. Nala, you're a sweet wonderful dog, you touched everyone who loved you. We will never forget the gift God has given everyone you knew by loving them.

Nala Vonuberhund D'Aprile
1998-2003
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sorry guys for such a long winded post

Libertine - 4-29-2003 at 08:59 PM

:(

Summa*Breeze - 4-29-2003 at 09:08 PM


Cultprincess, I am sorry to hear that your loved one was put down. My beautiful Samoyed, Tori, was put down last week due to ill health and it was the only choice (and a very hard one) I could make in regards to her well-being. Even though both our pets have been put down for different reason's, I don't know how someone can put their pet down when there may be other alternatives…but who am I too say. All I know is that it was hard to let her go so I can imagine what you must be going through. So if you need a virtual shoulder…:(

Fender-Man - 4-29-2003 at 09:41 PM

cultprincess, sorry to read the bad news. I'll tip a 40 on the curb for your hommie! I know I would be very upset/pissed if something happened to my dog. Keep ya head up!

True to his name

sonicspirit - 4-30-2003 at 06:00 AM

well, you know my feelings about "pig vomit" and all of his antics...sonofabitch:mad:
the world turns around...and eventually it will turn on him..little solice, I know. But I can't wait to see what karma has in store for him.

Planet Girl - 4-30-2003 at 06:18 AM

Oh my god. That just hurts like hell to read.

I am so sorry for both you and your daughter, and Nala.

I can't fathom some people especially when it comes to mistreating animals, and in this case, he out and out killed her. And that just makes so angry I could cry.

Be glad he's gone from your life, and Nala's in a better place. I know that's not much help, but it's the best I can do from here.

Hugs....to you and your daughter.

PG
:(

[Edited on 4-30-2003 by Planet Girl]

JayRoberto - 4-30-2003 at 06:55 AM

WHAT AN ASSHOLE !!!

:(

Sorry to hear it Princess ... you and your daughter are WAY BETTER away from this kind of human trash.

JRoberto

cultprincess - 4-30-2003 at 11:16 AM

Thank you everyone, it helps to know you're here, it's been a sad, sad 24 hours since i received the news. Unfortunately i STILL have to put up with him being we live about an hour away from each other, and we have a daughter together.
I just can't understand how someone can do that, when there were other options.
I'm thinking of moving back to Virginia in the summer, because he'll NEVER stop, it'll never end. My daughter sat and cried her eyes out while writing the poem saying we don't deserve this, asking me over again why? Her dad is a 34 year old man, he doesn't deserve the title of being called dad. (Take for ex: I had gotten her nails professionally done for Valentine's day, he told my 14 year old it looks like something a whore would wear, she stated her opinion, he told her a 14 year old isn't entitled to opinions and then smacked her)
This is what i have to put up, then he says he's sorry(until next time), or he buys her something to make it better. This is not teaching good values or morals
or to solve problems. I refuse to subject her to that type of an environment, it's not healthy.

Planet Girl - 4-30-2003 at 12:07 PM

GGRRR, men who hit children.....

Virginia is a nice place.

PG
:angel:

b.star - 4-30-2003 at 01:12 PM

so sorry for you

if i had to be that man i'd puke every morning when looking in the mirror...

u, your daughter & your dog didn't deserve that.

holy shit dude!!!

sexualpanther3 - 4-30-2003 at 05:41 PM

i never say this to ANYONE but i actually cried when i read that. princess, man, i dont know what to say. if this was me, i woulda done sumthin to get thrown in prison for - like trying to kill him or sumthin along those lines, just unleash all hell on his ass. and the fact that he HIT YOUR KID just makes me hot. lemme tell u sumthin girlie - down here in the south (esp. Texas) as close as we are to one another, family or not, if anyone in a community finds out that ur hitting ur kids u get an asswhoopin u wish u woulda got from ur mamma! we whoop ass down here, and that aint no shit. or better yet, the kids hit back, harder. i know cuz i done it before - and i think my drunk dad learned a little lesson too: dont fuck with chicks, esp. ur own daughter. he put ur dog to sleep bc hes a lowlife lazy scumbag asshole?? now that is just absolute bullshit man, just bullshit. when that waste of life bites the dust, i hope that if u show up to his funeral u spit on his grave when they throw that last bit of dirt on there. cuz i know i wood for DAMN sure! man ppl like that just get my blood pumpin and start to boil :mad: i think im done now, i need to cool off.....................

but hey princess, this is a good place to vent all u want and need to............u got friends to listen and comfort u here.:)

iana - 4-30-2003 at 06:56 PM

I am so sorry for you,your daughter and your dog,you know me I lost it when I read that earlier today and I couldn't even comment on it I was so distraught,all I can is ,is what I say everyday about people like this and that is,I really hope we all get what we deserve in the end,thats my only consolation in this fucked up life with so many people that have no regard what so ever for an animals life,it's their world and we're living in it.I feel so bad,I rescued another baby squirrel today,5 weeks old who fell out of his nest and couldn't get back,I rushed a cat to the Humane Society for emergency surgery this afternoon,she was within minutes of dying(blood poisoning,hypoglycemia and list goes on) I have had a very stressful day but that could never compare to what you are going through,my heart goes out to you and your daughter,i'm so sorry:(

cultprincess - 4-30-2003 at 07:41 PM

Thank you for being there for me (and my daughter) I'm sorry this is a disturbing post~especially where it concerns the man my daughter calls himself "Dad" 8)
I agree, what comes around, goes around, he'll get whats coming to him. KARMA... Maybe not in the here and now, and not by me, but it'll come.
I could sit and wish for his death every day, or wish bad things upon him and hope lives miserably, but i won't, i believe in threefold, i certainly don't need bad luck coming back to me.
I e-mailed him last night with a picture from the breeder we bought Nala from (along with Nala's dad) simply stated: DOG KILLER. That's his new name, i used to call him "Pig Vomit"~but that's being way too nice.
He calls himself a man8)~ yeah fucking right, not only does he go and kills my dog, and his daughter's dog too, but he now avoids her phone calls, talk about stepping up to the plate8) Cant take what you dish out, huh? If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen:mad::flame: F**KER:flame::mad:

[Edited on 5-1-2003 by cultprincess]

WHAT!!!!!!!!

Star - 5-1-2003 at 09:21 AM

Okay, now I'm pissed! I'm so sorry to hear about this. That's BULLS**T!!!!!

I'll be calling you soon, so we can chat. And BTW I did get your message the other night. Sorry, I've been a little busy. But we'll talk very soon.

***HUGS***

fucked!!!!!!!!!

the wizard - 5-2-2003 at 12:10 PM

:flame: that mother fucker is the one that needs "put down". what a fucking spineless waste of d.n.a.

CP i'm very sorry to hear that disturbing news, my heart goes out to you and your girl.

oh and by the way, if ya feel like moving back ya got pals near by:D

about karma: karma can come very quickly sometimes, especially if i, er, um i mean "karma" has dog killers address;)

cultprincess - 5-2-2003 at 01:18 PM

hmmmm, i may have to e-mail you really soon G:angel:
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Instant Karma's gonna get you,
Gonna knock you right on the head,
You better get yourself together,
Pretty soon you're gonna be dead,
What in the world you thinking of,
Laughing in the face of love,
What on earth you tryin' to do,
It's up to you, yeah you.

well shheeeeiit

the wizard - 5-2-2003 at 05:22 PM

if i didnt just recently purchase j.lennons greatest hits, was just listening to I.K the other day. far fucking out man.


dirty deeds done dirt cheap.( if not come on back to v.a, sucks here but its safe and theres no insane asshouls here but me, and i dont kill dogs):cool:

cultprincess - 5-2-2003 at 06:38 PM

Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap:lol:
He's not worth it, totally not worth it.
You know i've found animal cruelty websites, lyrics to a song called Euthanasia, and have thought about e-mailing him something once a day, my bro-in-law is a cop in Virginia, he warned me to be careful, he's going to come back and say i'm harassing him. You know i thought about it, he's right. Sometimes saying absolutely nothing is the best thing. He's probably thinking what am i thinking or what am i up to? Because even if i e-mailed him or left any kind of messages on his phone, i'm still communicating with him, which is what he wants, in his mind he's "winning a game" and i won't let him get the better of me:mad::flame:

Waste of life
You're a waste of life
Waste of life
You're a waste of life

Been doing some thinking and I have an answer
To arrest the spreading cancer
Send you back to where you came from
Get the fuck rid of you (sub)human scum~Type O Negative




[Edited on 5-3-2003 by cultprincess]

Tamlyn - 5-2-2003 at 06:42 PM

I'm sorry about your dog:( *hugs* if you need any help in removing Pig Vomit from this world, just let me know. i'll get my people on it right away;)

[Edited on 5-3-2003 by Tamlyn]

Planet Girl - 5-2-2003 at 06:43 PM

Vent.

Its a good thing, right?

PG
:flame:

the wizard - 5-2-2003 at 08:13 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Tamlyn
I'm sorry about your dog:( *hugs* if you need any help in removing Pig Vomit from this world, just let me know. i'll get my people on it right away;)

[Edited on 5-3-2003 by Tamlyn]


holy fuck tam, is that the family truckster?:o

Missing You

cultprincess - 5-3-2003 at 08:55 AM

I miss you so much, you have no clue. Life is hard without you. I hope the person who did this to you never forgets. I hope it takes long to forgive what they did. You were a blessing, I feel in a state of great despair. Nala~you'll never be forgotten, you'll always be immortal in my soul.

N ever Uncompassionate
A lways a friend
L oyal
A ngel

(another poem by my daughter I wanted to share)

[Edited on 5-3-2003 by cultprincess]

sexualpanther3 - 5-3-2003 at 07:42 PM

Type O Negative tends to help when ur pissed off dont they? and the lyrics fit for everything:)

THINKING OF YOU

Bast - 5-4-2003 at 08:40 PM

Hi cultprincess. [*BIG HUGZZZ]
Seems as though "Pig Vomit" lives up to his name yet again! After reading your post, I have but one word "APPALLING"!! I have to wonder if the "swine regurgitator" would have been so quick to put one of his new girlfriend's dogs to sleep. I have sent a special "prayer" his way.......a lifetime of erectile problems, premature ejaculation, carpal tunnell syndrome and acute halitosis. Hope the girlfriend is the tolerant type! ;)
(Obviously not since she still has her dogs....a dual decision was made me thinks). I am truly sorry for both you and your daughter, and only hope that "karma" hits them with a force ten! :mad:

Keep your chin up hon, you have many people here that care, which is one more than what "Pig Vomit" has! :flame::moon:

[Edited on 5-5-2003 by Bast]

cultprincess - 5-5-2003 at 04:25 AM

Bast, thank you love, and everyone on the board. It helps knowing I have friends here. We've all been here for a while, even though i've not met alot in person, it feels like I know you. One of these days, i hope get that chance, and I would hug all of you:)
Besides halitosis, and carpal tunnel syndrome, i hope you also thought of boils on his ass:lol:
My daughter said the same thing, if it were her dogs doing that, her dogs would still be alive. With him, it's always another thing to see how far he can push my buttons, I REALLY hate to think my dog died in vain in a way to get back at me. I've never did anything to this man(besides the fact after he left, I lost almost 90 pounds and I'm doing ok for myself~that i didn't curl up and die because he's no longer in my life) he's the one who had a girlfriend when HE moved out, he's the one who served me and filed for the divorce, (even though all these conditions were mutual) There's nothing left he can do, besides stopping short of stalking me or doing physical harm, two words, Bring It:mad:
Anyways... when are coming over to the states Bast? We'll have to get together with others from the board and have a good time:)

sadistic bastard!!

atropa - 5-20-2003 at 09:37 PM

Run away from him as fast and far as you can! He sounds like a real meglomaniac to me. Poor, poor Nala. I'm so terribly sorry for all of you. My Mom had to put her dog, Julia, to sleep a few months ago due to ill health. It's never easy to lose anyone you love, and I know my dog is like my kid. I love her fiercely, and I think I would have to kick his ass if I were you. And hers. Bitch.:mad:

cultprincess - 5-21-2003 at 08:14 AM

What comes around goes around, KARMA. He deserves everything he gets, (good or bad)